Colorado Divorce & Family Law Guide

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The Colorado Divorce & Family Law Guide was created by Carl O. Graham, a Colorado Springs, CO divorce lawyer and former Army JAG officer. As a principal in Black & Graham, LLC, a domestic relations and criminal defense firm, Carl heads up the firm's family law practice, and focuses exclusively on Colorado divorce & family law, including military divorce issues. To learn more about our Colorado Springs family law practice, visit the law firm web site at:
www.blackgraham.com.

 

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  • Colorado Divorce & Family Law Guide
    • The D.I.Y. Divorce Guide
      • Get the Forms
      • Instructions for Forms
      • File & Serve Initial Pleadings
      • Provide Financial Disclosures
      • Fill out Agreements, Decree, etc.
      • Initial Status Conference
      • Final Steps (No Children)
      • Final Hearing (If Children)
    • Entering Into Marriage
      • Prohibited Marriages
      • Common Law Marriage
      • Ceremonial Marriage
      • Same-Sex Marriage
      • Designated Beneficiary Agreements
    • Termination of Marriage
      • Grounds for Divorce or Legal Separation
      • Jurisdiction
      • Procedure
      • Divorce
      • Legal Separation
      • Annulment
      • Statutory Injunction
    • Paternity
      • Jurisdiction
      • Paternity & DNA Testing
    • Prenuptial Agreements
    • Bankruptcy & Divorce
    • Children & Custody
      • Jurisdiction
      • Parental Decision-Making
      • Decision-Making Modification
      • Child Custody / Parenting Time
      • Parenting Time Modification
      • Relocation of Children
      • Children Passports
      • Best Interests of the Children
      • Parenting Experts / Professionals
        • Child & Family Investigator / CFI
        • Child's Legal Representative / CLR
        • Parental Responsibilities Evaluator / PRE
    • Asset & Debt Division
      • Division of Property & Debt
      • Pension & Retirement Division
        • Division of 401(k) Plans
        • Division of PERA
        • IRAs (Individual Retirement Accounts)
        • Social Security Benefits
      • Property Settlement Modification
      • Division of Employee Stock Options
      • Vacation & Sick Time
    • Colorado Grandparent Rights & Visitation
      • Legal Standard for Grandparent Visitation
      • Colorado Grandparent Custody Rights
    • Child & Spousal Support
      • Alimony / Maintenance
      • Maintenance Modification
      • Child Support
      • Child Support Jurisdiction
      • Child Support Modification & Termination
    • Protective Orders
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Same-Sex Marriage

Colorado Prohibition

Same-sex marriages between gay or lesbian couples are not permitted in Colorado.  Colorado law requires a marriage to be between one man and one woman.  C.R.S. 14-2-104(1)(b).

Moreover, Colorado will not recognize as valid same-sex marriages performed outside of Colorado, even if the marriage were legal under the jurisdiction where it was performed.  C.R.S. 14-2-104(2).  So a same-sex couple who married out-of-state are unable to obtain a dissolution of marriage in Colorado.

 

Federal Law

In 1996, as a reaction to Hawaii's pending legalization of same-sex marriages, Congress passed the Defense of Marriage Act, which codified two provisions into federal law:

"In determining the meaning of any Act of Congress, or of any ruling, regulation, or interpretation of the various administrative bureaus and agencies of the United States, the word “marriage” means only a legal union between one man and one woman as husband and wife, and the word “spouse” refers only to a person of the opposite sex who is a husband or a wife."  1 U.S. Code §7.  This means that the federal government will not recognize any marriage other than one between one man and one woman, regardless of whether a gay/lesbian couple is legally married under the laws of their state.

No State, territory, or possession of the United States, or Indian tribe, shall be required to give effect to any public act, record, or judicial proceeding of any other State, territory, possession, or tribe respecting a relationship between persons of the same sex that is treated as a marriage under the laws of such other State, territory, possession, or tribe, or a right or claim arising from such relationship. 28 U.S. Code §1738C.  This section therefore authorizes states to not recognize as valid same-sex marriages performed elsewhere.

 

Domestic Partnerships

In 2006, Colorado voters defeated defeated, by 53% to 47%, a ballot initiative which would have authorized domestic partnerships.

 

Same Sex Marriage Alternatives

  • Designated Beneficiary Agreements.  It's not a domestic partnership or civil union, but it does give unmarried couples, including gay & lesbian couples, the right to receive death benefits, inherit without a will, made medical decisions, etc.
  • Allocation of Parental Responsibilities.  Gay & lesbian couples can still share parental responsibilities, and have court-ordered parenting time upon breaking up.
  • Same-sex adoption.  Colorado law allows any two adults to adopt 

 

More Information

WIkipedia has an exhaustive article on the Defense of Marriage Act, including its legal challenges.

 

 

 

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